THE LOCUM DIARIES (21)

Day 21... It was a new week and I was feeling ‘new and refreshed’. I resumed work today early and in good spirits. I got into my office and after listening to radio (my routine once there's nothing to do), I started watching movies (I'm not a movie person so anything that will make me … Continue reading THE LOCUM DIARIES (21)

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THE LOCUM DIARIES (20)

Day 20... I went to work today feeling like sunshine.That's what happens when you get to have the whole day to rest. The front desk officer was calling me while I was getting ready for work, I dropped my number yesterday at her request. I kinda figured out why she was calling me, ‘Doctor, where … Continue reading THE LOCUM DIARIES (20)

MEN NEED SEX! Understanding Male Sexuality….

From counseling the married, especially the women I realize that many of them do not understand male sexuality. They'll say: "men are scum" or "men are dogs",usually referring to men who cheat, but I have discovered that many a time, the issue is due misunderstandings about male sexuality. Let me explain it to you. A … Continue reading MEN NEED SEX! Understanding Male Sexuality….

WORLD HEALTH DAY 2017: LET’S TALK DEPRESSION

This morning I got a call from the HR at work. They notified me that I've been relieved of my duties. What I feel is familiar.    I’ve felt this way before, I’ve just never really given into this feeling and now nothing holds me back. Sadness comforts me. My sister died six months ago … Continue reading WORLD HEALTH DAY 2017: LET’S TALK DEPRESSION

Suicide Spotlight. 

Telling people who show suicidal intentions that they will go to hell after committing suicide, is not a particularly sensible form of dissuasion. Perhaps, the most religious guidance counsellors out there would in fact tell you that nothing drives people closer to suicide than verbal condemnations and/or false prophetic banishment to a world worse than … Continue reading Suicide Spotlight. 

Abortion: Facts you should know.

As a doctor, I get a lot of requests from a large number of women (and men!) to prescribe medication or schedule time for a procedure to terminate pregnancy known as abortion. Due to the increase of unwanted pregnancy among the general population, I am writing this as a public service. Almost 80 million unwanted … Continue reading Abortion: Facts you should know.

10 health boosting facts about masturbation, and why it is good for you!

Recently, I received a message from a lady who's husband has been away from home for a very long time. At the time of his leaving, she had been pregnant and they were not having a lot of sex due to concerns about how it would affect the baby. Her husband travelled before she put … Continue reading 10 health boosting facts about masturbation, and why it is good for you!

Day 6. No sex before marriage. Oyinloluwa Adeyemi-Levites. 

Hi, my name is Oyinloluwa Adeyemi-Levites. I am an advocate of "no sex before marriage ". My husband and I courted for 3 years. That was a long time to court someone you love so much that it tends to create tempting moments. We used to see about 3-4 days per week. So it was … Continue reading Day 6. No sex before marriage. Oyinloluwa Adeyemi-Levites. 

Day 5. Sylvester Edobor. Love is Commitment. 

This is me talking heart to heart with you. I am tired of seeing  broken hearts and shattered dreams everywhere. Love is a promise. It's a promise you make to a partner to share, to build up, to see all the faults and choose them over and again. We however conveniently forget that a  promise … Continue reading Day 5. Sylvester Edobor. Love is Commitment. 

Day 1. SELF LOVE. Ifunanya Adannaya Anih

Today, I look at my mirror and see a strong confident woman who knows her worth and need not be shown it. I'm comfortable in my own brown skin. And I no longer need anyone, male or female, to approve of my person or my beauty because I have accepted myself inside and out.  If anyone says beauty does not live here, I will let them search for it the rest of their lives.