MEN NEED SEX! Understanding Male Sexuality….


From counseling the married, especially the women I realize that many of them do not understand male sexuality.

They’ll say: “men are scum” or “men are dogs”,usually referring to men who cheat, but I have discovered that many a time, the issue is due misunderstandings about male sexuality.

Let me explain it to you.

A man NEEDS sex. You’re not doing him a favor. It’s necessity for them, but men manage this need differently. Some men are more disciplined than others but the discipline and self control doesn’t mean that need isn’t there .

This is why you will find a man married to an absolutely gorgeous woman cheating on her with his less attractive secretary. The wife doesn’t cater to his need but the secretary does.

I asked a woman during counselling “when last did you have sex with your husband”?

“I don’t remember. Is sex food?” She retorted.

Is your husband fine with that? I asked.

“He was always disturbing me for it but I wasn’t in the mood for it and later he stopped.”

Well the reason he stopped was because he was being serviced outside!

Now there is no moral reason or excuse for cheating but from experience with couples in crisis I have found that it is hard for an affair to occur if sexual activity is fulfilling and regular!

A Good man will never go outside when he can just go inside and get some from his wife!

Yes, he needs your respect, validation, praise and good food but above all he needs sex!

Don’t joke with your marital bed!

If you notice that he doesn’t even ask for it anymore, maybe he is “eating” outside.

Be honest about each others expectations. Tell him yours and listen to his. Satisfy each others needs.

Nothing destroys a marriage faster than an affair.
It paralyzes everything.
Depression sets in, hate, anger and inevitably divorce.

The rate of men and women living in adultery is high and the neglect of the marital bed by one or both parties ranks high as one of the causes.
Madam, please don’t let Oga go out sexually hungry!
Oga, don’t let madam go to work sexually thirsty!

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